On November 26, 2013 Paper and Ink: Femme Aimee (5) By Emmeline Bisiikwa, Uganda: In every relationship there is the reacher and settler: You know, the person who needs the other more. The balance of power lies with who cares less. Paper and Ink, Series 0 Comments Fb. Tw. Lnkd. Pin. Tmb. Vk.